One day last week, by the time the sun had come up over the trees, I had gone through my morning rituals, cleaned the bathroom, started a load of laundry and set off on a bike ride. By the time I returned from the bike ride that I normally enjoy, I realized little joy had been involved. I had done it because I thought I should. I had done all I did because I thought I should, and with little thought but by habit and faint voices of generations in back of me.
Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you. ~Carl Sandburg
Yesterday afternoon–by a determined decision to look away from pages that I’d been struggling to write, the messy kitchen, the gardenia bush wanting planting, oh, and all those ragged bushes that need trimming, what would people think!– I made a glass of sweet tea and sat in the porch chair.
Then I found myself looking at email and Twitter on my phone. Purposely, and like some alcoholic with a drink, I sat the phone aside and just looked around me.
Oh, how hard it has become for me to just sit!
Sitting and praying is acceptable, sitting and studying, planning with pen and paper, writing something, reading something–all of that producing something tangible is highly valued because of production. But just sitting? Taking time to really look at the scenery around me, let my body relax, let my true self have a chance to catch her breath and begin to wonder and imagine and speak wisdom. Such a concept was not something practiced in my family growing up. Nor is it valued in today’s fast-paced striving world. Today we want to see produce from every minute.
I learned… that inspiration does not come like a bolt, nor is it kinetic, energetic striving, but it comes into us slowly and quietly and all the time, though we must regularly and every day give it a little chance to start flowing, prime it with a little solitude and idleness.” ~Brenda Ueland
There is value in just sitting. Immense value, and if we really believed this, we would do it. The treasure we seek and need is inside, but it has to have time to come out. To be let out. We have to take time for sitting in idleness, and we have to deliberately take the time, because the world is not going to hand it to us.
Eventually yesterday I did get quiet, and my mind bubbled up with interesting thoughts on a number of things. I saw the chapter I had been working on with new insight. And I ended up later having energy, and time, to plant the gardenia.
Today I mark on my calendar: Take time to sit.
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I just blew away another comment – ?? the last part was I enjoy sharing some of the day with you Curtiss Ann, and how your blogs are not a distraction to me, merely a time-out of play before I get on with it. I need play. I read the same Daily Word quote you tweeted today, and had my prayer partner pray for me for the wisdom and power of God to manifest within me and for me to retain “unshakable faith in my God-given abilities.” which is an lifting I need to frequently remind myself for. In fact I brought the DW over to my typewriter before seeing your blog intending to write a page for my “Word Made Flesh” creation and then get started on my hide-n-seek chapter playing with me.
I confess, I am looking at your blog, as I am struggling with a chapter, not easily coming to me.
Just sit …….think it could catch on like, “Just do it!” I share the value in it with you.
I was going to follow your tweet — I don’t know how to get mine established like you have on your glorious site, but then I can’t remember my password for the life of me on Twitter; I’ve tried several times, changed it several time, and somehow, it is over my head.
Plus, I don’t need more distractions either
Oh, dear Sue, I am searching for understanding about the distractions for me in this world. Where am I to focus? I pray. I enjoy Twitter, but I have learned to set it aside. Facebook I hardly do at all. This is the way for me. I’m grateful for the blog to connect me to you and others. I see this now with more clarity, and in answer to prayer.
And hoorah for discovery of another reader of Daily Word! Thank you! I will think of you now, many states away, but close in heart.
CurtissAnn, sister in faith
Dear CurtissAnn, yes sisters,
Daily Word in my hand since 1979, the year I sobered up. Been with me ever since and I have the blessing of sobriety since then as well, a day at a time.
Just sit….I loved this writing. I’ve copied the beautiful chair photo and will imagine myself “just sittin’ with you, no talkin’ no writin’ ….just sittin’in chime with one another.
I hate that the comments don’t come up in our emails anymore. That’s how I knew someone talked back with me. I almost missed this. Your blog site is so amazing.