I read this bit of writing advice this morning: Start where you are.
It seems an evident fact. I can’t start over there, if I’m not over there. I always wish I was over there–wiser, far more cleaver and knowledgeable and organized, not only about whatever topic I’m writing about, but about everything. (That word ‘more’ seems to produce an abundance of dissatisfaction.) But the unchangeable truth of life is that power is only at the present moment where I am. That is where I’m living and breathing and holding all the abilities I currently possess. And it is enough to start. Simply start and more will be added.

I have the the famous Theodore Roosevelt quote pinned near my desk. The “Pretend you’re good at it” was added by a dear friend. It comes from the idea of visualizing what you want to. Like keeping your eye on the ball. It would be helpful if I looked at these truths more often. They are a roadmap to get me started with any endeavor, and to keep me on track as I go.
I remember back at the beginning of my writer journey, when I read every article about writing and the writing life that I could lay hands on. Many a successful author (meaning published) told of being so passionate about writing as to keep at it late into the night. The wonderful writer Jack Bickham told of getting up at 5:30 a.m. in order to write before he had to go to work. And then I read an author recount how she kept a notebook beside her bed because she frequently woke in the night with a great idea and would jot it down before she forgot it.
I still remember that moment of reading those words. My thought was: “Oh, dear heaven, I’ll never be a writer. I can’t wake up to write anything down, or I’ll never get back to sleep! I need my sleep and can’t function without it. I am not ever going to lose sleep to write.” Quite discouraged, I rolled over and went to sleep.
The next morning, when I first awakened, I had another thought: “I may have a handicap about needing sleep, and that’s okay. I don’t have to do what other writers do. I can do what I can and see how far I go.”
I never have lost sleep over writing, and I’ve written now 40 books and countless essays (someday I need to count them), ad copy and social media posts. With each of those bits of writing, I’ve started where I am, with what I am and what I have.
It is the writing that has made more of me.
Would you be interested in joining a small e-mail group to study The Right to Write by Julia Cameron?
I will facilitate a small study group where we will go through the book chapter by chapter. Through e-mail we will share weekly (or more often) our experiences working with Cameron’s ideas, what we learn, and what struggles we meet along the way. The point of the group is to encourage one another and feed our writer and writing life. Start where we are and grow.
The group will be kept to no more than five members. The small group will allow me to offer the opportunity for group members to submit short works for my feedback.
I’m just now putting this together, still determining how best to handle the book’s chapters and the length of the study. The level of interest will determine much of that, and yes, it is free. If you are interested, simply send a message by the form on my contact page, here.
“Looking for Real Life…” The graffiti scrawled on the ladies’ room wall was an abrupt wake-up call for 40-year-old divorcée Claire Wilder. Grabbing tattered courage, she jettisons her current life—stressful job, lovely condo, and an ex-husband who’s made it clear she’ll always be in his rear-view mirror—and hits the road in search of herself and her own real life.
I’m excited to have embarked on getting Sweet Dreams at the Goodnight Motel into audio book. It will be debuting on Apple Books Audio within the next two months. This is starting where I am, with what I have, and heading on. I’ll let you know how it goes.
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Grace and peace,



6 responses to “Start Where You are, with writing and Everything”
I’m an insomniac. Its 1 am here in New Zealand and I’m doing my post and catching up with everyone else’s posts now because I have been too busy today (or yesterday) . . . I love this time. It’s peaceful. I can gaze out the window at the stars. I am at peace. 💕📚
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Sandy, I suspect my attitude about sleeping is rooted in first, sleeping so poorly for much of my life, and second, a negative idea of need. Your words help me to attempt to re-frame my thoughts with a more positive and abundant view. Thanks!
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I used to worry about sleeping so little. But worrying is futile and I then decided to better use the time. I’m glad I’ve been able to help. If I’m tired during the day, I have a little nap – 15 – 20 minutes is quite refreshing. Listen to your body rather than trying to mold it into your expectations. 🤗💕
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Um… guilty of staying up all night because I literally couldn’t sleep until I’d written it all down. 😵💫 But you’re right, keep an eye on the goal and not what other people are doing. 😊
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I praise you for that passion and devotion, Darcy!
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My brain is overactive, what can I say. 🤷🤪😊
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